i am a 27 year old guy that has been in a relationship for the last 9 years, untill just over 6 months ago when my fiancee left me taking with her my 2 young children. things have been rocky for a while but never thaught it would end between us. we have had a very good sex life and my extremely high sex drive has never been that much of a problem until now. i find whenever i am around her i want her badly.  it doesnt help that i get mixed signals from her. going from having sex a few times a week to now not having it at all has made me realise how big a part of my life sex is and that my sex drive is a real problem. not getting sex from the woman i love is making me depressed and confused. i dont want to need sex all the time but dont know what to do. i have become obsessed with trying to get her to sleep with me and cant get sex out of my head. what can i do??